To the "test drive" poster above: yes, practice makes better, but you miss the point. We were virgins too (though we didn't advertise that) and the idea was, 1. get married, then 2. figure out how to have sex. We had sex 14 times in our first three days, including four times on the wedding night, and you know what? Soon it started to get better.
Nobody is a great lover the first time, but not everybody is expecting great sex the first time. What people who marry as virgins DO expect is that they will figure it out with this new partner and enjoy the learning process.
To people like us, the pathetic thing isn't that the guy can't last forever at first. It's the people who leave a wedding to do something they've been doing all along, with nothing new to discover. That sounds so sad.535 days ago